tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8542488071443558267.post8115249047855194304..comments2024-02-28T22:38:41.185-08:00Comments on Two Sides: My ChoiceSerenityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00900590845879351292noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8542488071443558267.post-41425935566873460842010-02-23T17:49:35.240-08:002010-02-23T17:49:35.240-08:00The people in your life that love you, though they...The people in your life that love you, though they may not always agree with your choices, will not demand nor require an explanation of them. Your decisions are just that, YOURS! I love you, Friend. I am here for whatever you need, always =)Graciehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14396409202124562603noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8542488071443558267.post-88343905589811738552010-02-22T18:58:21.685-08:002010-02-22T18:58:21.685-08:00I, too, am standing for the healing of my marriage...I, too, am standing for the healing of my marriage after my husband was unfaithful after 16 years of marriage. However, he filed for divorce after 3 months of seperation. Still standing, I denied him the divorce. He has not proceeded further, nor returned home, but I am making the decision to fight for my marriage and our three kids. I will NEVER let them see me give up!! You are right, we are the strong ones! Keep up the fight! It is worth it!!Tracynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8542488071443558267.post-11884589256417259032010-02-22T17:38:48.826-08:002010-02-22T17:38:48.826-08:00I can definately relate to people judging every mo...I can definately relate to people judging every move you make...and like you said, until they each walk a mile in your shoes they have no room to judge whatsoever. I, too, had always said that infidelity would be a deal breaker for me and the first thing I said to my husband when I found out he was seeing someone was--let's work this out, we can get past this. I was told to tell his girlfriend's husband, I was told to tell all of his friends exactly what he had done to me, and I was told to take him for everything...but I knew that I would have to live with my actions for the rest of my life and I so I chose to be the bigger person no matter what he was doing to me. Stay strong...and feel confident in making your own decisions!!!Jesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01771755393782101343noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8542488071443558267.post-4569245134314327682010-02-22T12:13:33.078-08:002010-02-22T12:13:33.078-08:00Seriously? People are anonymously doing that? You...Seriously? People are anonymously doing that? You're right it is YOUR choice. I admit I didn't understand at first, but you gave me excellent examples many months ago and I totally get it now. Hang in there, friend. <br /><br />*HUGS!*Furry Bottomshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06126096393524594755noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8542488071443558267.post-35126751044453062902010-02-22T12:01:04.289-08:002010-02-22T12:01:04.289-08:00I completely agree. Some people dont realize this ...I completely agree. Some people dont realize this until "they" are put in the same position. I am praying for you and your family!<br /><br />~Hugs~Aliciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15891198829668161006noreply@blogger.com