tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8542488071443558267.post1903576762889105621..comments2024-02-28T22:38:41.185-08:00Comments on Two Sides: What Am I Doing Wrong?Serenityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00900590845879351292noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8542488071443558267.post-78913079719216310942009-10-22T07:53:31.910-07:002009-10-22T07:53:31.910-07:00Big Hugs to you. Sounds to me like you're on ...Big Hugs to you. Sounds to me like you're on the right track... hang in there...and I can't even imagine how hard this is for you or your boys..Crazee Julshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13548983833692955117noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8542488071443558267.post-84941171663470376062009-10-21T12:10:54.222-07:002009-10-21T12:10:54.222-07:00ALSO! Are you just waiting on him? Are your child...ALSO! Are you just waiting on him? Are your children waiting on him? Do you think maybe if you initiated legal separation or divorce proceedings, it might help you and your children to start creating a new normal, to move on and continue with life?Furry Bottomshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06126096393524594755noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8542488071443558267.post-15527021014615699192009-10-21T12:08:26.039-07:002009-10-21T12:08:26.039-07:00This brought tears to my eyes. I so understand ho...This brought tears to my eyes. I so understand how it feels when you aren't sure if he is listening or not. I'll tell you what others have told me when I came to this crossroad. He does listen. Maybe not the way you want him to, but he knows best, and he will listen however he thinks is right... but he IS listening. <br /><br />I recently went to the ocean, right. I see God in the ocean and in the sun. When the water comes rushing up the shore towards you, place your worries and your problems in it. Watch the water recede back and know that you are being cleansed, and that the waves are carrying your worries/problems to a higher power.<br /><br />I know you are against divorce, but have you stopped to wonder why you are so against it? Is it some dogma you were raised with... or is it a personal belief? Have your reasons changed? Think of this in a way like a domestic violence scenario. Only the battering is not physical, its all emotional. Would you stay with a man who is battering you regardless of the outcome, would you put your children in that path? Would you allow him to come back, only to have him do the same thing over and over again?<br /><br />Someday, if he ever wants to come back, there is always the option of renewing your vows or remarrying him if that is what you really want. I am just wondering if a divorce would be the wake up call you seem to want him to have. <br /><br />I'd like to know why you are so against divorce, personally.Furry Bottomshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06126096393524594755noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8542488071443558267.post-23351239973498273342009-10-21T11:58:55.289-07:002009-10-21T11:58:55.289-07:00He is always listening. I find the problem is tha...He is always listening. I find the problem is that we talk to Him too much and don't listen enough. And you can hear Him so many different ways. Mine's usually through music.Acehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00538577922632790840noreply@blogger.com